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    • A poem by John O’Donohue
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  • Fees & Services
    • Q & A about therapist support group
      • Diagram of therapist support group
      • More Stuff on Support & Groups
    • Forms
    • Flyer for therapist support groups
  • FAQ
    • First meeting: what to expect
  • Contact
    • Parking and Public Transit
What is your basic understanding of the group?
The group constitutes a collective effort for managing and processing challenges associated with career and life.

It means a place where people with common interests and challenges come together to share sentiments, be heard, and experience trust.

What criteria is used to judge group effectiveness?
  • People collaborating and working together.
  • Affirming awareness of taken-for-granted notions.
  • Increased sense of confidence to act and respond to challenges.
What does support mean to you?
Support is a collective way of dealing with life’s challenges. I am reminded of the cartoon of two donkeys each unsuccessfully trying to eat a bale of hay until they begin to work together and eat the same bale rather than attempting to approach two opposite bales simultaneously.
Why are you doing a support group?
Mental health counseling is fatiguing and challenging. Much happens and there is much to be processed, integrated and let go.

In the course of attending to client needs, some reactions are nudged to the rear of consciousness.

The support group is a space where therapists can acknowledge and begin the process of integrating such reactions.

Why a support and not a Consultation group?
Group members do consult with one another around clinical and professional matters.

These support groups, however, allow for a wider scope of interest. In my experience with consultation, is the scope of discussion tended to be limited and focused on the client or delivery of service.

My preference is to remove constraints on what people discuss. Emphasis is on the well-being of group members, and it is important that they discuss what is relevant to them personally and professionally.

How do you distinguish personal from professional?
What is done outside of profession/career and unrelated to work.

I also include with personal the innermost thoughts, underlying assumptions, and notions of the clinician. The subjective or backend of what goes on during the client and therapist interaction.

I recall a lesson from years ago while facilitating a multi-family group and asking people to pair up with a stranger and share about a favorite film. Someone strongly objected to the exercise because the information was too personal to share.

The members of the support group determine for themselves what and how much to share with others.

Does being in your support group mean I have a DSM diagnosis?
No. It means you made a wise choice to utilize available resources in the of meeting challenges encountered in the course of living. Support is a good thing.

Incidentally, I avoid the use of diagnostic labels in all facets of my work because of the artificial barrier they erect between myself and clients. I find that the avoidance helps to ground me and to be more authentically present.

How do you compare your support groups to other forms of group assistance?
“Support” and “assistance” are for me interchangeable. Availing ourselves of resources, in this case, colleagues, is a good thing.

People may seek assistance for any sort of need or concern. The support groups for therapists assist with making wise adjustments to the challenges faced in careers and life in general.

However, somethimes life’s challenges morph into stubborn snags that require a more intense form of support. In such circumstances a more spicific, narrowly focused form of support may be what is needed to move forward.

These support groups are most useful for general reflection and integrtation of experiences and lean toward preventive in nature.